The Feminisation of Men in Islam
And now for something different: the feminisation of men in islamic countries. Or perhaps more accurately, the attempts to stop the feminisation of men in one islamic country. The basic religious view is this:
“Among those who are cursed by Allah and His Angels, both in this world and in the Hereafter, the Prophet, peace and blessings be on him, has mentioned the man whom Allah has created as male but who becomes effeminate by imitating women, and a woman whom Allah has created as female but who becomes masculinised by imitating men. For this reason the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade men from wearing clothes or things pertaining to women.”
Now, if we were to restrict ourselves to such things as homosexuality or lesbianism then there’s plenty of other religions, some of them much closer to home, that would take a similar sort of attitude. But in Kuwait, they really mean these things. A man caught wearing an earring can (and some are) be arrested by the police and held.
Quoting a Saudi scholar, Sheikh Muhammad Salih al-Munajjid, it continues: “Wearing adornments on the wrist and neck, and on the ears is an imitation of women, as this is something that is only for women. So it is not permissible for men to wear bracelets, earrings, anklets, or chains.”
The Kuwaiti parliament has now taken this religious advice to heart: on December 10, it amended the penal code so that anyone “imitating the appearance of a member of the opposite sex” could be jailed for up to a year or fined up to 1,000 dinars (£1,790).
Since then, at least 14 people have been arrested in Kuwait City and thrown into prison for the new offence, according to Human Rights Watch. Several were picked up at police checkpoints, one in a coffee shop and two more in a taxi.
Again, it really isn’t all that long ago that men who wore their hair long in our own society were regard as, at minimum, a little odd, and we still have a certain incredulity (although no longer legal discrimination) about men who dress as women.
But if I’m honest, the thing that first came to mind on reading this story was, well, if this was imposed here, what would that mean to all those metrosexuals? Carefully coiffed hair, immaculately moisturised skin and so on?
Would there be a rebellion at the clamp down, as millions of young men had to stop using those products which were until recently thought of as exclusively feminine, like said moisturisers?
Or would there be a great sigh of relief as we all abandoned the competition to appear perfectly groomed and went back the the idea of takinig a simple shower once a week, whether we needed it or not?
Economists refer to this primping and preening as a hedonic rat race, competition for a positional good. And at times it’s regarded as a bad thing, for by the very nature of the competition being about position, only a small minority can be top dog. So perhaps the slobs of the world (like myself) should actually be agitating for such laws to be brought in?