Why feminists hate Sarah Palin
OK, it’s actually why some feminists hate Sarah Palin, not why all of them do. But there’s certainly more than just a smidgeon of truth in this article.
Left-wing feminists have a hard time dealing with strong, successful conservative women in politics such as Margaret Thatcher. Sarah Palin seems to have truly unhinged more than a few, eliciting a stream of vicious, often misogynist invective.
On Salon.com last week, Cintra Wilson branded her a “Christian Stepford Wife” and a “Republican blow-up doll.” Wendy Doniger, religion professor at the University of Chicago Divinity School, added on the Washington Post blog, “Her greatest hypocrisy is in her pretense that she is a woman.”
You’d think that, whether or not they agree with her politics, feminists would at least applaud Mrs. Palin as a living example of one of their core principles: a woman’s right to have a career and a family. Yet some feminists unabashedly suggest that her decision to seek the vice presidency makes her a bad and selfish mother. Others argue that she is bad for working mothers because she’s just too good at having it all.
What on earth could be driving such feelings? Why would feminists hate Sarah Palin quite so much? Or, again, some of them do so?
The answer given rather rings true for me. It’s that there are some feminists who equate the desired (as I also desire it) legal and opportunity equity for men and women with a whole other series of political desires. For example, there are plenty of proclaimed feminists who see socialism (or it’s dull as ditchwater sister, social democracy) as the only way to gain gender equality. For they see that gender equality can only come as a matter of economic equality….and more importantly, economic equality of outcome rather than just of opportunmity.
Now I’m not saying that’s wrong, although I very much disagree with it, but views like that are obviously going to color one’s views of a conservative Christian woman and her feminism or not. Because she doesn’t embrace the economic part of that feminist argument, thus she cannot be a feminist.
There’s more to it as well I’m sure. I’ve actually read people arguing that abortion of a child with abnormalities is actually something that people should do, not just something that should be possible for them to do. Again, I’m rather steering clear of the main debate there, over abortion itself, but freedom to choose is really rather different from moral pressure to insist upon abortion in certain scenarios.
Finally there’s the point made by the author:
Not to Ms. Marsh, who insists that feminism must demand support for women from the government. In this worldview, advocating more federal subsidies for institutional day care is pro-woman; advocating tax breaks or regulatory reform that would help home-based care providers — preferred by most working parents — is not. Trying to legislate away the gender gap in earnings (which no self-respecting economist today blames primarily on discrimination) is feminist. Expanding opportunities for part-time and flexible jobs is “the Republican Party line.”
It’s part and parcel of that overarching political viewpoint I note above. That simple equality isn’t the major point. How that equality is reached is.
I must say though I wholly agree with this point:
Mrs. Palin’s marriage actually makes her a terrific role model. One of the best choices a woman can make if she wants a career and a family is to pick a partner who will be able to take on equal or primary responsibility for child-rearing. Our culture still harbors a lingering perception that such men are less than manly — and who better to smash that stereotype than “First Dude” Todd Palin?
Well quite….how well you succeed in this life in attaining your goals does in large part depend upon the choices you make in that pursuit. There’s no choice larger than the one about who you marry either. But then that really wouldn’t fit the feminist ideals of those who are so upset with Sarah Palin either, would it? That in order to have it all you need to pick the right man to have your children with? Isn’t that too close to stating that your success depends, again, upon a man?
Perhaps it is but it also sounds a lot closer to observable reality than the idea that a woman with a career, family and a balanced home life isn’t a “feminist”. That was the point of feminism in the first place, wasn’t it, that women would be able to have all those things?
